The Ultimate Groom’s Guide to a Relaxed and Intentional Wedding Morning
While much attention is often given to the bride’s morning routine, the groom’s getting-ready experience is just as important. Too often, groomsmen see this time as an opportunity for excessive partying, leading to a rushed and chaotic start to the day. Instead, your wedding morning should be a relaxed, intentional time filled with good company, meaningful moments, and thoughtful preparation.
If you’re wondering how to plan a stress-free and enjoyable morning, we’ve got you covered. Here’s the ultimate guide to ensuring you and your groomsmen start the day on the right foot—with confidence, calmness, and a touch of class.
Setting the Tone: The Intention of a Groom’s Morning
Your wedding day will be one of the most memorable days of your life. The way you start it sets the tone for everything that follows. Instead of waking up late, scrambling to get dressed, or dealing with the aftermath of a night of excessive drinking, imagine a morning filled with camaraderie, relaxation, and intentionality.
A well-planned groom’s morning is about:
Easing into the day – Enjoy the quiet moments before the celebration begins.
Creating lasting memories – Spend quality time with your closest friends and family.
Looking and feeling your best – Feel confident and refreshed for the big moment.
Crafting the Perfect Groom’s Itinerary
A structured yet relaxed itinerary will ensure everything runs smoothly without feeling rushed. Here’s a suggested timeline for an ideal wedding morning:
8:00 AM – Start the Day with Movement
Kick off the morning with an activity that gets your blood flowing and clears your mind. Some great options include:
A round of golf at a nearby course.
A group workout—think boxing, lifting weights, or a yoga class.
A light jog or hike if your wedding venue is near scenic trails.
This is a great way to release any nervous energy and bond with your groomsmen in a fun, laid-back way.
10:00 AM – Fuel Up with a Big Breakfast
After working up an appetite, sit down for a hearty breakfast with your crew. Opt for something substantial and nourishing, like:
Eggs, toast, and avocado
Protein-packed omelets
Pancakes and fresh fruit
A solid cup (or two) of good coffee
This isn’t just about eating—it’s about gathering around the table, sharing laughs, and soaking in the excitement of the day.
11:00 AM – Freshen Up & Get Ready
Now that you’ve taken time to wake up properly and fuel your body, it’s time to start the grooming process:
Take a hot shower to relax any lingering tension.
If you’re getting a professional shave or haircut, this is the time to do it.
Apply a light cologne (but don’t overdo it—less is more!).
Get dressed in your wedding attire, ensuring everything is properly steamed and fitted.
12:30 PM – Groom’s Portraits & Groomsmen Photos
Once everyone is dressed and looking sharp, it’s time for the first round of portraits. These will typically include:
Solo groom portraits – A mix of posed and candid shots highlighting your wedding-day look.
Groom with groomsmen – Fun, relaxed, and polished group shots with your best men.
Candid moments – Laughing, fixing ties, toasting with a whiskey or espresso—natural moments that tell the story of the morning.
This is where hiring a photographer who understands your vibe makes all the difference. We’ll capture images that feel authentic to you—whether it’s moody and editorial or lighthearted and playful.
1:30 PM – Final Touches & A Quiet Moment
Before heading off to see your partner, take a moment to center yourself:
Write a last-minute note to your soon-to-be spouse.
Have a one-on-one chat with your best man or dad.
Take a few deep breaths and soak in the day.
Final Thoughts: An Intentional Start to an Unforgettable Day
Your wedding morning is not just about putting on a tux—it’s about stepping into the biggest day of your life with clarity and intention. By starting the day with movement, good food, meaningful moments, and a well-paced timeline, you’ll feel ready (and look your best) when it’s time to say, “I do.”
If you’re looking for a photographer to capture every moment authentically, from the quiet getting-ready moments to the unforgettable celebration, I’d love to be a part of your day. Let’s document your wedding with a storytelling approach that reflects who you are—effortlessly cool, deeply in love, and ready for an incredible day ahead.
